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In this one-of-a-kind training program, I’ll be revealing how I went from wanting to give up on my family entirely to adopting and fostering 9 children of my own.

The best part? You can forget about trying to piece meal resources together. You’ll no longer have to google search every specific question you have on your child. This will be your one stop shop for a complete christian program to help your hurting kids that:

  1. Gives you a Complete System: You'll get access to Steve Luther's 20-year in the making, trauma based christian parenting program. Steve has been a Christian Counselor and Founder of The Grace Wellness Center in Pennsylvania. He has trained hundreds of parents locally for the past decade!

  2. Inducts you into a Community:  You'll have instant access to our Private Facebook Group where we can feel safe sharing our stories, confident in knowing there's help and together in this battle to help our children thrive.

  3. Honors the Unique Makeup and History of Your Child: We know every child is unique and has their own challenges. You'll have access to many of our TBCP Experts - including Steve Luther himself. You'll be able to ask your questions via Facebook and get them answered. We will also be doing regular Facebook Live sessions where you can collaborate with Steve and other parents on how to help your child best.

  4. Grounded in a Biblical Approach: Everything we do is steeped in prayer, scripture and biblical truth. We believe, whole-heartedly, that we have a loving and wise God who walks with us in the midst of our parenting.

If you are a parent, foster parent or adoptive parent of a child who comes from trauma and wants to know how Jesus speaks to the chaos and pain in ourselves and in our children, then this program is for you.

I’ll show you the entire step-by-step process to connecting more deeply with your child, alleviating the internal anxieties in yourself and fostering an environment to help your child find real sustainable peace. But don’t just take my word for it…


Parents Who Got Results with “Trauma Based Christian Parenting”


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Relief after 7 years!

"For seven years , we have seen traumatic stress counselors , psychiatrists, family therapists and group therapists, without success. In the beginning of April 2014 , I sought parenting strategies at Grace Wellness Center for my adoptive teenage daughter who has RAD. The strategies and encouragement have been exactly what my husband and I needed . The coaching and time spent learning how to deal with ongoing situations has yielded great benefits for our family . I would encourage any parent especially parents of children with RAD to give this avenue a serious try. "

- Dana C.

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Resounding Praise!

“This works ridiculously well!!”

-Dr. Jim Lenze

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My entire family dynamic changed!

Thank you for facilitating the My Kids boot camp. It was pivotal for us in learning how to effectively parent our RAD daughter. What a difference it has made for our whole family . Frankly , it has helped us across the board in our marriage, friendships, family relationships, and professional relationships. We would highly recommend this "boot camp" for parents who are challenged in raising attachment disorder children . Honestly , we are filled with hope and promise now more than ever!

- JD and SD

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This really works!

"I recently began seeing a young man for issues with behavioral concerns, anger, and identity issues. After our first session I suggested that the parents attend Steve's My Kids parenting class. Within the first two weeks I noticed a dramatic change in the son’s attitude and demeanor. The parents were overwhelmed with excitement over the knowledge they received, the practical tools they were able to apply, and most importantly the changes they were seeing in their son! By the end of the session, both the parents and their son were reporting that home had become a much healthier, safer, and more pleasant atmosphere for all of them. There is still some work to do on both ends. However, there was a dramatic, significant, and noticeable change with both the child and the parents, and progress is definitely evident!"

- Counselor seeing a parent from the Trauma Based Christian Parenting Program


Here’s What I Discovered


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LOOK, I know how you feel. It can be a brutal  being a parent. 

You can be tired and frustrated with your child, whom you love dearly, and you are looking desperately for a solution to give them the peace they need. And if they get peace - you get peace. Unfortunately, most parenting techniques approach children from old methodology that doesn’t account for the traumatic experiences they’ve had. 

In Trauma, the brain literally rewires itself and old parenting methods MAKE THE ISSUES WORSE rather than help them. Trauma Based Christian Parenting will put your worries to bed and finally give you the peace your child and you deserve.

The goal of Trauma Base Christian Parenting is to help people thrive – especially folks who feel like they are in survival mode. 

I know this because I used to live and breathe chaos everyday in my household.My wife and I struggled, mightily for years not knowing how to help our hurting kids. We were broken and without hope on how to parent our foster, adoptive and biological children. 

About 10 years ago my marriage and family life were in utter turmoil. I had been a counselor for years working with kids from highly traumatized homes and I thought my wife and I could handle foster care with ease.

Boy, was I wrong.

My children (biological and foster) and I weren't connecting and worse the chaos in the house was slowly but surely, eating away at my marriage. My desire was to have peace in my home and meet the needs of both my biological and foster children. 

I thought working on a Master’s degree in counseling would help – NOPE.

I thought if I just tried harder I would get results – NOPE.

So I started a long journey that drove me to one HUGE IDEA.

Yes. One.

 I knew we all needed help. I️ felt I should know, seeing how I️ had my second degree and third job in my counseling field.

I️ knew nothing. I was hopeless - until I had a conversation with my therapist John. 

He told me about this thing called “brain based parenting”. He summarized that when my kids brains are in survival mode they physically cannot reason or use logic.He told me all my well-meaning parental advice such as  lectures, structure and disciple was actually doing the opposite of helping.

I️ was adding to the pain of my kids.It was in that moment of realization that I️ knew I️ needed three things: (1) Brain based approaches that consider my child’s past traumatic experiences. (2) A community of people who have had success with their foster and adoptive children. (3) A biblical approach that uses God’s wisdom, love and hope to do a work in me and my kids.


That’s when I️ created Trauma Based Christian Parenting. At first it was me and my wife learning this new brain based approach. Once we started seeing peace and life in our home - we moved on to helping others. A few hundred families later we realized working with folks one on one was too slow. We need to help more people faster. That’s when we created our digital environment for Trauma Based Christian Parenting.


Well… You don’t know my kids..


You’re right. We don’t know your kid(s) and exactly what you are going through, have been through or will go through. Like any other program there isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer for anyone - however… There are fundamentals, that with intentional and person-specific coaching can work miracles in you and your children.

The reality is you don’t know my kids either. Some of my story is here but I have horror stories and stories of past and present failures that you’ve not heard of or gone through either.

I truly believe that we can all learn from each other. Let’s learn together.


Why Should You Use A Proven System?


Reason #1: No more wasted hours with research, trial and error. The system I will show you will grow your audience and show you what works when it comes to parenting your traumatized child

Reason #2: A trauma based approach works with the way your child’s brain is wired. You meet them where they are instead of forcing them into parenting strategies that make them feel threatened and helpless. Most parenting strategies are designed around trauma-free kids, this strategy is designed for the way your child’s brain is wired.

Reason #3: You don’t need to be a psychologist or become a psychologist to help your child. I’ve taken several degrees and 20 years of trial and error so you don’t have to. This program will save you years of trying to figure this out on your own.


The Bottom Line


While every effort will be made to accurately represent how to improve the connection between you and your children, their ability to trust and receive love, and thus their behavior, there is no guarantee that you will get certain results. Any person or product that tells you otherwise is lying.

Even though these methods have created astounding changes for myself and my clients, there is never any guarantee—just like life in general, really.

Examples and case studies in this program are not to be interpreted as a promise or guarantee of discernable change in you and/or your kid(s). Such changes are entirely dependent on the person(s) utilizing the training programs, strategies, tools, and resources.


The Course


PROGRAM OVERVIEW: The story behind the TBCP Program and a comparison of the old "consequences and rewards" parenting model to a new model based on attachment.

PROGRAM OVERVIEW:
The story behind the TBCP Program and a comparison of the old "consequences and rewards" parenting model to a new model based on attachment.

DEVELOPING YOUR VISION: Understanding the importance of God-sized vision and removing limitations, along with how to work backward to create specific goals to to obtaining your unique vision.

DEVELOPING YOUR VISION: Understanding the importance of God-sized vision and removing limitations, along with how to work backward to create specific goals to to obtaining your unique vision.

ATTACHMENTS DEFINED: Gaining a deeper understanding of attachment from a parent' s perspective. Learning to identify your own attachment style and that of your kids.

ATTACHMENTS DEFINED: Gaining a deeper understanding of attachment from a parent' s perspective. Learning to identify your own attachment style and that of your kids.

THE RELATIONSHIP EFFECT: Comprehending the flow of energy and information between us. Identifying the role we play in creating change in our family dynamics.

THE RELATIONSHIP EFFECT: Comprehending the flow of energy and information between us. Identifying the role we play in creating change in our family dynamics.

BECOMING A TEAM: Pinpointing the real problem, reframing it, redefining it, and repositioning yourself to partner with your child and work cooperatively toward a solution.

BECOMING A TEAM: Pinpointing the real problem, reframing it, redefining it, and repositioning yourself to partner with your child and work cooperatively toward a solution.

BECOMING A TEAM: Pinpointing the real problem, reframing it, redefining it, and repositioning yourself to partner with your child and work cooperatively toward a solution.

BECOMING A TEAM: Pinpointing the real problem, reframing it, redefining it, and repositioning yourself to partner with your child and work cooperatively toward a solution.

IT' S ALL ABOUT CONTROL: Trauma creates a need to regain control by ineffective methods. Gain self-control for both you and your kids by giving control to God.

IT' S ALL ABOUT CONTROL: Trauma creates a need to regain control by ineffective methods. Gain self-control for both you and your kids by giving control to God.

ACUTE SELF-AWARENESS: Coping with physical, emotional, social, and spiritual forms of stress. Walking by faith versus walking by sight along with identifying your triggers.

ACUTE SELF-AWARENESS: Coping with physical, emotional, social, and spiritual forms of stress. Walking by faith versus walking by sight along with identifying your triggers.

THE REASON YOU' RE HERE: Learning even more about creating harmony with your children as Steve walks you through the DANCE model himself.

THE REASON YOU' RE HERE: Learning even more about creating harmony with your children as Steve walks you through the DANCE model himself.

USING THEM PROPERLY: Understanding the value of consequences, their various forms, and where, when, and how to employ them - if you should use them at all.

USING THEM PROPERLY: Understanding the value of consequences, their various forms, and where, when, and how to employ them - if you should use them at all.

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Bonuses


With your purchase we are throwing in some massive bonuses. We want to equip you to make sure you have everything you need!

Private Facebook Group

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All of our trained TBCP experts are in this group. You’ll not only get answers and feedback from other parents who’ve delt with the situations you have. This community helps you know you’re not alone and lets you connect with parents just like you.

Facebook Live Q&A w/Steve Luther

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You got tough questions? We want to hear them. We are always listening to what the hot topics are in the community. Steve will regularly hop on Facebook Live to field your most pressing issues or questions on a regular basis.

Live Webinars

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The field of Trauma Based Christian Parenting is ever expanding. As new research comes out we’ll be providing regular webinars (which then become modules you keep forever) to consistently update our ever expanding work in this field (that way you don’t have to).

D.A.N.C.E. Model: EXPANDED

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We’ve designed an entire 8 module course that breaks down in granular detail each step in the D.A.N.C.E. Model. This is the active practice that we train our TBCP experts (soon to be you) in to manifest all they’ve learned in the course. Think of this as an advanced practice model once you’ve finished the foundational course! Oh and it’s just one of your bonuses!


Pricing


*Includes 30-day money-back guarantee

*Includes 30-day money-back guarantee

 
* Includes 30-day money-back guarantee

* Includes 30-day money-back guarantee


FAQs


How long do I get access for?

You get life-time access. :)

Can I download material?

Yup! There will be pdf downloads of the slides, and downloads of the videos and an mp3 version so you can watch from anywhere, anyway, anytime!

Is there a guarantee/refund policy?

Yes. If you are not completely satisfied after 30 days you can get your money back - no questions asked. Well, we’ll ask why we just won’t let that stop your refund :)

Do you update the course, if so do I get updates?

YES! You get forever updates to this course. There are usually monthly updates but every year there are significant updates and changes that we give you access to immediately.

If I have a question that comes up during the course, how do I get it answered?

You can do one of two things. (1) You can email steve luther directly at steve@traumabasedchristianparenting.com or (2) post your question to the Private Facebook Group.

Will I receive anything in the mail or is it all online?

This is entirely online. We sometimes have books or other reading material we send upon your request (when we make available such materials) but other than that its completely online.

Who is this course for? Is it for me?

Here’s who this is for:

  1. For those that are Jesus followers or desiring to follow Jesus with their parenting

  2. Those who have foster, adoptive or children who have experienced trauma

  3. Those who know this is a long-term paradigm shift in themselves and their kids and are willing to commit to the work necessary to make deep spiritual, emotional, relational and familial changes